TheJach.com

Jach's personal blog

(Largely containing a mind-dump to myselves: past, present, and future)
Current favorite quote: "Supposedly smart people are weirdly ignorant of Bayes' Rule." William B Vogt, 2010

Getting over someone sucks



It's not my first time, actually it's nothing new, but that doesn't make it any easier to get through

It's a pollutant of the mind. Frequent and daily thoughts about her and how I must be a terrible person, I must have done various missteps, some I can plausibly point to, some I have no idea about so always wondering whether such and such was a mistake, but if such and such other thing was then that's kind of unfair anyway to hate me for because in most contexts including that one it's fine but sure what the hell I'll take responsibility for them anyway. Self-blame is a game I don't mind even if it doesn't feel good.

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